相亲新形式 “智慧相亲”.

　　随着网络相亲、电视相亲等各种相亲形式的爆红，似乎越来越多的人开始热衷这种速配的方式。同一时间不同的地点，却兴起另一种相亲风，称为智慧相亲，即一起听讲座或读书会等文艺范的约会活动，这种相亲方式即将在沉迷中爆发了，下面一起来聊聊这种新的相亲方式吧。

　　Intellidating, a blend of intelligent and dating, rers to dating that emphasizes intelligence, particularly by attending lectures, readings, or other cultural events.

　　Intellidating，是intelligent(智慧)和dating(相亲、约会)两词的合成词，指一起听讲座、去读书会或其它文化活动，强调才华和智慧层面的约会相亲，我们称之为“智慧相亲”。

　　Call it the courtship equivalent to the slow-food movement. Call it a backlash against point and click matchmaking. Whichever, intellidating — an unhurried, decidedly highbrow approach to mating — is catching on in big cities around the world.

　　你可以说这是“慢食运动”的翻版，也可以说是对在线婚配的反击。不管你怎么定义，“智慧相亲”这种不紧不慢、决意走高雅路线的相亲方式已经开始在世界各大城市兴起。

　　Intellidating is also a boon for the shy. In contrast to speed-dating, which demands rigidly timed discussions about pretty much whatever pops to mind, events such as lectures and viewings offer built-in conversational pegs.

　　“智慧相亲”同时也是害羞人士的良方。速配相亲中因为时间有限，所以都是想起什么就聊什么;而“智慧相亲”中的讲座和观赏等活动可以为双方提供很多现成的话题。