01.03 广州7000

一位澳际网友第七次签证之后的感想，读来感人至深。与大家分享。 [b]------------------------------------------------------------------------ [b]今天是我的生日。全家冀望这一天能给我带来运气。其实我并非想今天去，因为现在广州政 [b]策好像改了，约得很靠后。12月1日外出，劳烦一好友代约（当时网上据说约到1月2日了）。 [b]我其实想在上月下旬去，学校就要开学了。真是一个巧合。现在广州领管确有改变，今天好 [b]像是1000和返签一起排队，vo都用电脑（以前签证台上没有，手里不用拿申请人过往的表格 [b]看据签记录），领馆大门在翻新，由临时同道进入。 [b][b]这次可谓祸不单行。昨天白天，我的尾骨隐隐作痛，晚上加剧。不明白什么原因，没伤过。 [b]深夜疼醒了，夜尿时全身冷颤。痛意不减，今早7：00不得不起来，因为约了8点83号。起来 [b]后体温下降，晕坐地上。赶快趁还有一丝清醒之际，唤叫弟弟。本不用别人陪去，结果还是 [b]让弟同去。看能否让他也进去，至少让他了解一下，对他日后有帮助。那时卧在床上，顿感 [b]一丝唏嘘。弟弟虽没申请过签证，但自身的挫折困难不比我少。留学乃至整个学业路途上， [b]就只有弟弟一人始终如一支持我的决定，从未有所保留，二十多年来我们相互促进。 [b][b]今天毕竟是生日。梳洗一番，精神好多了，尽管尾骨还痛得很，走动不大方便。两兄弟一起 [b]吃过早点就上路，此时已过8:35am。我们打车到沙面。我跟门口的保安哥哥寒暄几句，他就 [b]让我快快进去，但弟弟不能进，尽管我身体可能会再出意外。 [b][b]进了签证厅，看到有有近一百人排蛇饼队，大约两个vo，三号是我第一次见的短发MM，很年 [b]轻很nice，第一个感觉就像找她Interview，二号没看到。交了四大件后，叫我排2号窗。我 [b]就问能避开以前见过的vo吗？小姐回答，到时候请跟vo说，他来决定。我只好排了。我是9点 [b]过一些进入领馆管制区的。 [b][b]看到二号是小胡子，我不大愿跟他interview，都据过我两次了，在盘算如何跟他说。小胡子 [b]还是一如既往的爱问questions而少看材料，据的也多，起码十来个才过一个。他西装革履 [b]的，很professional的样子。DFMM就不同了，虽不很多，但起码五六个就过一个。她很 [b]slim and pretty，只穿一件黑T－shirt，typical American girl, 举止活泼可爱。（这 [b]都只是我的个人意见）我更喜欢她的耐心有礼，签过了，她恭喜你一番，说说要注意些什 [b]么；不过，也很nice的说遗憾，解释一番，给点意见。这是亚裔gg出来客串一号，还像以前 [b]爱穿黑色长袖衬衣，不变的发型。其实我常说他华裔，说不定是广东籍华裔，广州话说得很 [b]好。他是去年夏天的大水车，我认识几个朋友都签了三四次最后在他手上过。但他客串了2、 [b]3个就离开了，有过的。也很nice。 [b][b]小胡子和DFMM有相同地方，签得慢，尤其是MM。站了一个多小时，一支队才去掉20人左右。 [b]后来小胡子和DFMM都退下。出来时换了位置。我感到有希望了。站到约11点半，我感到很不 [b]舒服了，就离队坐在椅上，歇了三四分钟。期间突然一声拍击，有一中年男子大骂vo，说是 [b]花了那么多钱投到美国高这个项目，机票都定了，想不到vo竟如此滥用权力。离开时，还老 [b]远指着vo批。一名保安低声劝他先离开：“以后还可以再来嘛。”不明原因，我也没多理会 [b]了。其实骂也没用。但我很赏识这保安，不像另有一个对一个累了踩着栏杆柱的老太婆说： [b]“你都说年纪大。年纪大还去什么美国。” [b][b]就这样等到将近12点，还有约40来人，莫非要下午签？我前面有一个女孩跟DFMM说她岗在英 [b]国读了三年毕业回来。但MM说，你离开这里有三年了，很可能对这里了解不深，你没能证明 [b]这里有strong ties。我建议你在国内先呆两年。章已盖下，但女孩还跟她说，MM也说了几 [b]句。最后女孩还是无功而回。 [b][b]终到我了。我手里一大堆东西（全自费，两年Master，跟夏天时签的学校不同），兴冲冲上 [b]前，往台上一放，两手放下。微笑着先说：Happy New Year！她先是奇怪一下，也回礼 [b]Happy New Year！ [b]Me：（抢先）I feel a little nervous… [b]MM: Take care. Don’t be nervous. Just listen to me and answer my questions. [b]Me: Because it’s my birthday. (Smile) [b]MM: Don’t say that. Let’s go on… Where are you going to study in United [b]States? [b]Me: *** State U, **. My professors recommend it. [b]MM: Hem, you’re going to study Electrical Engineering. So tell me what [b]will make sure you will come back? [b]Me: （说了这里的电信发展，想致力未来的通信。其次my goal是成为这方面的专家和教授） [b]Would you like to see my materials (意图主动些)? [b]MM：No. Do think you can be a professor after you get a Master’s degree? [b]Me: I will. Because 我的一位好友硕士毕业要留校，将一步步向professor进军。 [b]MM： what university? [b]Me: *** U. I graduated from this U. Some of my professors run companies. [b]MM: （看了一下I20）Who will pay your study in US? (上面写着Family Funds) [b]Me: Self funding and my sister and brother in law. Would you like to see [b]their materials? [b]MM: No, just listen to my questions. Do they live in America? [b]Me: yes. [b]MM: How did they go to America? [b]Me: They immigrated to America in Nineteen Nineties. Family based immigrant [b]visas. [b]MM: why Family based immigrant visas? [b]Me: My brother in law immigrated to US in 1994 because his family in [b]America. My sister married him in 1995 and she went to US in 1999. [b]MM: (nodding, writing on my forms) only one sister in US? [b]Me: yes. And one sister in China here. My father is a permanent resident on [b]Hong Kong. I have a twin brother. He’s waiting outside this consulate. [b]Would you like to see him? [b]MM: I see. Do you have any change? [b]Me: Yes. （快速第进一个文件夹，有三个英国学校的offer of place）First, this. [b]MM: (翻看了第一个)Very good university. How many university have you apply [b]to? [b]Me: (立刻翻开装成绩的夹子，指着G成绩单)You can see this. [b]MM: (接过看，还读出一所的名字) [b]Me: Second, I have been selected for the new essential technical project of [b]our company. That will be the most advanced *** in Guangdong. Third, I don’ [b]t wanna be a ** Engineer only. I hope to dedicate in communications. China’ [b]s future 3G communication system will combine telecom and cable TV… [b]MM: (突然又问有这里什么东西一定吸引你回来)。 [b]Me：An advanced degree from US is extremely attractive here. I will have a [b]very promising career future here. This is the first choice. Second choice, [b]as I said my father is a Hong Kong permanent resident, I can go to Hong [b]Kong with him. [b]MM: (had a look at my form) Do you live in Guangzhou? [b]Me: Yes. I work in Guangzhou. Work for **** as an assistant engineer for **. [b]MM: (had a look at my form again) Oh yes. How long have you worked? [b]Me: More than 2 years. I graduated from ** U in year 2000. [b]MM: *&*%^*^ [b]Me: Sorry? (很快悟出她问月工资多少。真是反应迟钝。^0^) [b]MM: (中文)一个月收入… [b]Me: (at the same time)You mean salary. (She nodded.) Last year more than [b]*** (a quite decent #). [b]MM: (Nodded again) You…excellent…But…the law…I am sorry I can’t issue [b]a visa…(说完就盖章了)。 [b]Me: (怕她认为我混得还不够好) Please see my personal funds. [b]MM: Oh no. I trust you. But you can’t conform that you will come back…You [b]will go to this university (指着那所英国学校)。（你看你后面还有那么多人。）And [b]I think you should have a break. You’ve come here several times. [b]Me: I had a break. Last time in August. Fourth months. (她都一时无话可说) [b]Me: (不愿放弃。脑子拼命转，立刻说)None of my family members stay in US even [b]though they had nonimmigrant visa. (忙翻出妈妈的护照) Let me show you my [b]mother’s visa. She went to US in 2001 and she came back. [b]MM: I know she came back. But you can’t…please understand that I don’t [b]mean you are telling a lie, and that you are an excellent student. [b]Me: (还是不愿放弃，拿出最后一个王牌夹子。里头是打印出来的我和一个美国姐姐前年的 [b]emails)Look at this, please. She is the former ***. [b]MM: Oh no. (但当她看到夹在上面的卡片，语气即刻变了，快速说一句) Wait a minute! [b](拿到旁边去) [b]Me: (顿感有机会复生，补了一句) I got to know her in March 2001. (但又担心，因 [b]为她去找小胡子。因为网上盛传她举棋不定时总爱问小胡子，问后90％是死。) [b]MM: (很快回来) I am sorry… [b]Me: (心里很不甘，但已让位给后面的人)Anyway, thank you. [b][b]弟弟在外等了三个小时有多了，今天辛苦他了。很多东西可以不要，但永远不能失去手足 [b]情。两兄弟一起吃午饭，还请了一个在领馆工作的同学。路还是要走下去的。 [b][b]个人总结： [b]1． 健康很重要。留得青山在，哪怕没柴烧。个人成功，我认为，靠时机和生命，缺一不 [b]可。 [b]2． 广州的形势依我今日所见，还不差。但F1不多，仿佛过的也很少。我还是蛮喜欢DFMM [b]的，至少对她的工作打90分。她过与不过，不分男女老少，不分年龄，不分样貌。有的收入 [b]也不算高都过了。我很喜欢她的穿着casual又得体。不是说小胡子不好，而是他很严格，过 [b]不容易。 [b]3． 别人会认为硬伤多。但法律没规定这样不能去美国，过分紧张没用。为什么？因为我的 [b]理由是我想到美国读书，我要达到，就得争取。 [b]4． 我还没紧咬Plan和中国的现状，不应只着重个儿和家庭现实，因为这一经是事实了，我 [b]和家人都没错的，不要过于拘泥。 [b][b][b]今天很累，身体又不争气，总算写成一份签经。大家什么问题，看过再说吧。 [b]立即咨询