【TED系列精华演讲-脆弱的力量】演讲中/英对稿解读

摘要：今天给大家带来的TED演讲是来自于布琳.布朗，致力于人与人关系研究的人际关系学家。在她今天的演讲中，深入研究和深度思考力是的演讲更具有渲染力。同时演讲者能够把一个主题深刻延伸到这么多是非常不容易的！快和澳际君一起俩看看吧！

很多人喜欢TED的原因不仅仅是因为你可以在这里获得学习英语的大量素材——口语以及书面表达!更重要的是你在这里可以看到很多智慧闪耀的火花——时代最先进科学以及思想的碰撞!今天澳际君为大家带来的TED精华演讲主题是《脆弱的力量》。这篇演讲是来自于布琳·布朗。

布琳.布朗致力于研究人与人的关系--我们感同身受的能力、获得归属感的能力、爱的能力。在TEDx休斯敦一次富有感染力的幽默谈话中，她跟我们分享了她的研究发现，一个让她更想深入了解自己以及人类的发现。想要具体看看她在演讲中说了什么?表达了什么思想?请观赏下方演讲视频：

并没有完全听懂?不要紧，你可以对照中英文演讲稿再看一遍~

英文演讲稿：

One of the things that I think we need to think about is why and how we numb. And it doesn't just have to be addiction. The other thing we do is we make everything that’s uncertain certain. Religion has gone from a beli in faith and mystery to certainty. I'm right, you're wrong. Shut up. That's it. Just certain. The more afraid we are, the more vulnerable we are, the more afraid we are. This is what politics looks like today. There's no discourse anymore.

There's no conversation. There's just blame. You know how blame is described in the research? Away to discharge pain and discomfort.

We perfect. If there's anyone who wants their life to look like this it would be me, but it doesn’t work. Because what we do is we take fat from our butts and put it in our cheeks. (Laughter) Which just, I hope in a hundred years, people will look back and go, "Wow." (Laughter)

And we perfect, most dangerously, our children. Let me tell you what we think about children. They're hardwired for struggle when they get here. And when you hold those perfect little babies in your hand, our job is not so say, "Look at her, she's perfect. My job is just to keep her perfect - make sure she makes the tennis team by fifth grade and Yale by seventh grade." That's not our job. Our job is to look and say, "You know what? You're imperfect, and you're wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging."　That's our job. Show me a generation of kids raised like that, and we'll end the problems I think that we see today. We pretend that what we do doesn't have an fect on people. We do that in our personal lives. We do that corporate - whether it's a bailout, an oil spill, a recall - we pretend like what we're doing doesn't have a huge impact on other people. I would say to companies, this is not our first rodeo people. We just need you to be authentic and real and say, "We're sorry. We'll fix it.”想要看到完整版本的英文演讲原文，你可以点击查看这里:TED演讲【脆弱的力量】【内含中英文对照演讲稿】

中文演讲稿：

我们需要思考的一件事是我们是为什么，怎么样麻痹自己的。这不一定是指吸毒。我们麻痹自己的另一个方式是把不确定的事变得确定。宗教已经从一种信仰、一种对不可知的相信变成了确定。我是对的，你是错的。闭嘴。就是这样。只要是确定的就是好的。我们越是害怕，我们就越脆弱，然后我们变得愈加害怕。这件就是当今政治的现状。

探讨已经不复存在。对话已经荡然无存。有的仅仅是指责。你知道研究领域是如何描述指责的吗?一种发泄痛苦与不快的方式。我们追求完美。如果有人想这样塑造他的生活，那个人就是我，但这行不通。因为我们做的只是把屁股上的赘肉挪到我们的脸上。(笑声)这真是，我希望一百年以后，当人们回过头来会不禁感叹：”哇!”

我们想要，这是最危险的，我们的孩子变得完美。让我告诉你我们是如何看待孩子的。从他们出生的那刻起，他们就注定要挣扎。当你把这些完美的宝宝抱在怀里的时候，我们的任务不是说：“看看她，她完美的无可挑剔。”而是确保她保持完美--保证她五年级的时候可以进网球队，七年级的时候稳进耶鲁。那不是我们的任务。我们的任务是注视着她，对她说，“你知道吗?你并不完美，你注定要奋斗，但你值得被爱，值得享有归属感。”这才是我们的职责。给我看用这种方式培养出来的一代孩子，我保证我们今天有的问题会得到解决。我们假装我们的行为不会影响他人。不仅在我们个人生活中我们这么做，在工作中也一样--无论是紧急救助，石油泄漏，还是产品召回--我们假装我们做的事对他人不会造成什么大影响。我想对这些公司说：嘿，这不是我们第一次牛仔竞技。我们只要你坦诚地，真心地说一句：“对不起，我们会处理这个问题。”想要看到完整版本的中文演讲原文，你可以点击查看这里：TED演讲【脆弱的力量】【内含中英文对照演讲稿】

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